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5 questions to do with two moms lesbian

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When you start on the path of Pma with a pair of women, it is customary to inspire friends and family with questions and curiosity. Although some of the questions are insightful and weighted, listening to some out-of-place is possible. Here are the five questions we hope never to have to respond to and why.

1. Which one of you is the mother?

We are both!
It is a slightly different question, and, in a certain sense, it is correct, and the clinic. Nevertheless, please only ask the biological mother if she is in the family. A child may be adopted, or one of the mothers may have carried the baby in her womb while the other helped with the egg. The question is off-limits because it can imply a certain quality of motherhood: the mother who has given birth is the mother of the other.

2. Who is the biological mother?

This is a question that is slightly different and, in a certain sense, it is correct and the clinic. But don't ask of the biological mother because it may not be present in the family. The child may be adopted, or one of the mothers may have been carried in the womb the baby while the other helped with the egg. The question is off-limits because it can imply a certain quality of motherhood: that is, the mother who has given birth is the most mother of the other. 

3. Where you have taken the semen?

Of course, no lesbian couple is so deluded as to think that people think that they have made a child together.
If the family was pregnant and is served in sperm, it certainly does not come from one of the mothers.
However, even if you know them very well, the couple, the question of the donor may be thorny. Perhaps the semen comes from someone that even you know, or perhaps future mothers do not want to do the name of the seed bank, but above all, it is not the business of no one.

4. The father is part of the life of your child?

Once and for all, daddy does not exist!
A dad is a parent, and a donor is a donor. 
Let us strive to make a distinction strictly between a parent and a donor because they are different things. 

5. What do you know about the sperm donor?

Unless the parents do not begin to tell details about the donor, don't do this question. Unless the parents do not begin to tell details about the donor, do not do this question. There is nothing essential to know about the donor. You have to trust that the parents have controlled your health history and any other thing that is important to them. The answer to this question will never be: "Well, he is intelligence in the media; his biggest hobby is to sleep on the couch and gives sperm to obtain money." Come on! 

Would you like to tell us what questions you have? Write us in the comments!

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Francesca Cavallini | Presidente Tice Piacenza

Francesca Cavallini
Psychologist, Founder of the Tice, a Professor at the University of Parma, italy

With Silvia Perini's guidance, she started her Ph.D., which led her to study and work on precision teaching after graduating in psychology. During el doctorate, she had the opportunity to travel to America and know professor Carl Binder, which guided her in studying the principles of ABA in the company's management. Back in Italy, he founded Tice and, since then, has worked on social innovation and applied research combining his most significant interests: university and people.

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